Suzanne Crawford of Evanston calls him an angel.

“I don’t mean personality-wise,” she said. “I mean, he really is an angel.”

Lynn Seinfeld of Skokie says she’s not a religious person, but that she believes Spitzer has a special gift.

“You would never think a man had this much power,” she said. “He’s able to sit with people and talk them through one of the hardest times in their lives.”

Crawford and Seinfeld both credit Spitzer with helping them do what once seemed impossible: quit smoking.

But Spitzer, a smoking cessation expert who’s led thousands of people through seminars and clinics over the last 33 years, said all he does is help people understand that nicotine is a powerful addiction, and that smokers have to treat quitting as they would any other drug addiction.

“His whole thing is you can’t ever have another puff,” Crawford said. “I know that now. I’m addicted to nicotine and I can’t ever take it again. I admit it.

“Thank you, Joel,” she added.

More quitting

As the dangers of smoking, from lung disease to heart trouble to cancer, become more widely-known, more smokers are quitting. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported that between 1993 and 2000, the number of adult smokers fell from 25 percent to 23 percent in the U.S., and according to a 2000 National Health Interview survey, 70 percent of adult smokers in the United States wanted to quit.

“It’s always there when you smoke,” Crawford said. “It’s always on your mind. When am I going to quit? How am I going to quit?”

However, as anyone who has ever tried to quit knows, quitting is very difficult. Only 4.7 percent of those who tried to quit smoking in 1999-2000 managed to abstain from cigarettes for over three months, according to the CDC.

Nicotine-replacement therapy products flood the market, the American Lung Association hosts a Freedom from Smoking program online and in local venues, and experts like Spitzer offer courses.

But why is quitting so hard?

“We’re not dealing with a habit with smoking, we’re dealing with an addiction,” Spitzer said.

Going cold turkey

According to Spitzer, the only successful method to stop smoking is by quitting cold turkey, not by cutting back on cigarettes or using nicotine-replacement products.

“There’s no easy way out of a drug addiction,” he said. “It’s really hard to quit by cold turkey but it’s almost impossible by cutting down. If you have a choice between hard and impossible, go for hard.”

Ann Rowland, who teaches the ALA’s Freedom From Smoking classes through Lake Forest Hospital, agrees nicotine is a strong addiction in the sense that it is powerfully reinforced. Someone who smokes one pack a day will take up to 200 puffs daily, and those puffs are associated with coffee or driving or other triggers.

“It’s Pavlovian conditioning,” Rowland said. “You smell coffee and all of a sudden, you’ve got a cigarette in your hand. It’s not like that with heroin, like, I smell coffee, I’ve got to snort up.”

Clinic graduates and their family members celebrated course completion on Oct. 11. “I was a smoker for over 30 years and never in my wildest dreams thought I would be able to quit after one try,” said Lynn Seinfeld, a Skokie resident who completed Spitzer’s clinic two years ago. (Jeff Krage/For Pioneer Press)

Crawford, who started smoking in middle school, kept it up for 25 years, although she quit for at least a year three times.

“I chose not to smoke while I was pregnant, and then I went back on cigarettes,” said Crawford, who has a 19-year-old daughter and 6-year-old son. “I took one puff. I thought I could smoke just one.”

Three years ago, Crawford decided to take another stab at quitting, and saw an ad for one of Spitzer’s Stop Smoking Clinics, which are funded by tobacco settlement money and are free to Skokie and Evanston residents. Residents of other communities can attend the clinic for $125.

Crawford didn’t put any expectations on herself before walking into the first session.

“I could really smell the cigarettes on all the people and then I was struck by this person, Joel, who came in and talked that whole first session about addiction; what and how you chemically and physically deal with addictions,” she said.

At the end of the first class, Spitzer, who’s never smoked, told participants they were welcome to leave their cigarettes with him.

“I smoked one more cigarette and I didn’t smoke anymore after that,” Crawford said. “Yeah, it was damn hard, but you just don’t let yourself off the hook for a second. You can’t.”

Before quitting, Crawford had trouble exercising, but she’s since become a fitness professional. Her husband Charles Lehwald has also quit smoking.

Spitzer’s motto is “Never Take Another Puff!” a message he drives in during the two-week Stop Smoking clinics, which feature informational sessions and give the participants a chance to talk about the withdrawal process.

Extra support

Spitzer also keeps up with the members by calling them twice a day and providing other support. He just graduated another 20 quitters from his October class. The next clinic starts on November 30.

“You deal with enough smokers and you’ll see it’s an addiction,” said Spitzer, who has been speaking about smoking since he was in high school. He started out giving smoking prevention talks for a science fair project in 1971, when he was a freshman. By his senior year, he was lecturing at medical schools and training others about smoking prevention and cessation.

From the beginning, Spitzer called smoking an addiction, even before the U.S. Surgeon General did so, and has watched public opinion change as the dangers of smoking became better known.

“Go back 30 years. If you didn’t have a cigarette you could probably ask a doctor for one and he would give it to you out of his own supply,” Spitzer said. “If they understood it was an addiction, they could have treated it as an addiction. Now they use the term, but they treat it the same way they did before.”

Spitzer disagrees with those who say you can quit by cutting back on cigarettes.

“Try to find a weaning program for alcohol,” he said. “They don’t do that.”

He also believes that nicotine-replacement products only increase a potential quitter’s misery. He cited one recent clinic graduate who’d stopped smoking 20 years ago, but who still chewed nicotine gum, and still struggled with nicotine withdrawal symptoms until going through his program.

Withdrawal pains

“Is nicotine gum safer than smoking?” he asked. “Sure it is, but you’re keeping yourself in drug withdrawal. You’re prolonging a process that doesn’t deserve to be prolonged in any way, shape or form.”

Ann Rowland, program director at Lake Forest Health & Fitness Center, says using nicotine-replacement products is a personal choice. The ALA recommends carefully following the directions. The products are supposed to be for temporary use in order to relieve withdrawal symptoms during the quitting process.

“I don’t advocate them, I don’t not advocate them,” she said. “I allow the person to decide what would be best for them.

At her Freedom From Smoking clinics, which meet over the course of three weeks, participants spend the first two weeks learning what factors trigger their smoking and plan strategies for restructuring their environment in preparation for quitting the third week.

“It helps; so when quit day comes, they can quit cold turkey,” Rowland said.

Rowland teaches the Freedom From Smoking classes twice a year at Lake Forest Health & Fitness Center, although the planned fall class at the Lindenhurst facility was canceled due to low enrollment.

Lynn Seinfeld smoked for 30 years and never tried to quit until after her father, a smoker, died of an emphysema-related illness.

“I watched him die and it was awful,” Seinfeld said. “I said, ‘I don’t want this to happen to me.’”

Seinfeld searched carefully for a smoking cessation program, and arranged a special meeting with Joel Spitzer before attending his clinic two years ago.

“I remember when she came in to check me out,” Spitzer said with a chuckle.

Seinfeld was impressed by Spitzer’s genuine concern for smokers, and by his friendly demeanor. After she quit the first night of the session, she woke up the next morning full of anxiety for her first day without cigarettes.

“How am I going to handle the morning coffee?” she remembers wondering. “But before I got to the office, he had a phone call in waiting for me, and because of him and his style, I quit.”

Seinfeld remembers little about the first three days, when her body was going through the physiological withdrawal symptoms, other than that she desperately wanted a cigarette. She did strange things, like one day when she went to Panera and ordered soup in a bread bowl.

“I ate the bread first. I couldn’t understand why this soup was all on the tray,” Seinfeld said. “I was just in my own little la la land.”

One of the motivations Spitzer suggested was putting aside the money his students would have normally spent on cigarettes.

“Before I knew it, I had a couple of hundred bucks,” Seinfeld said. “Each time I buy something and I splurge, I say to myself, this is the money that would have been in the ash tray.”

Since quitting, Seinfeld enjoys dinners with friends that are uninterrupted by cigarette breaks. She’s complimented on her clearer skin and voice, and is able to sing and exercise again.

Still, she admits that she keeps a pack of cigarettes in her car, just in case.

“If ever, God forbid, I’m in an accident and I’m dying, I want to be able to go with a cigarette in my mouth,” she said.

For more information about the American Lung Association Freedom From Smoking program, visit www.lungusa.org. To learn about Joel Spitzer’s Stop Smoking clinics, smoking cessation and prevention seminars, and self-help material, go to www.joelspitzer.com.

When reporter Stephanie Fosnight originally asked me to write this column, I had a little more than two weeks of non-smoking under my belt.

I’d been a pack-a-day smoker for nearly a decade but had managed to muscle my way through the thousands of minutes of physical and mental anguish necessary to come out clean on the other side. The gnawing urges had dulled. The crippled concentration, the sweats and the temper flares were letting up. In short, the suffering was near over.

So when Fosnight walked up to me one day and asked if I’d write an advice column of sorts on how to quit, I jumped at the chance.

After all, I had beat the odds. I was among the elite “one out of every 20 smokers who try to quit.”

I decided the column should have the triumphant tone of a David-versus-Goliath tale, chock full of advice to help you tackle the tough odds in your own tour de force.

Then I got readdicted to smoking and scrapped the whole idea.

You see, I’ve made dozens of botched attempts at quitting, stints that lasted as long as a year and as short as the distance to the nearest gas station. Along the way I’ve become an expert in my own right, an expert in the art of failing to quit.

I was still puffing away as my deadline for the column approached, and so Fosnight suggested I switch to a piece on how not to quit smoking. In other words, bullet-pointed advice on what doesn’t work. Obviously, I was well versed. But no matter how I decided to write it, she said, the important thing was that I motivate people to quit.

But a smoker motivating another smoker to quit sounded ridiculous and smacked of hypocrisy.

Oh, I suppose I could’ve talked about the importance of exercise and drinking a lot of water while you’re quitting, and the perils of caffeine and alcohol. Perhaps mentioning deterrents like cancer or a recent study that puts the actual cost of smoking, post-healthcare, at about $40 a pack would motivate you.

That column would’ve been easier.

But instead I picked a more difficult route. I woke up this morning, threw away my cigarettes and came to work to write about not giving up.

That, simply, is the only way any of us will ever quit.

So choose your method, be it a support group, hypnotherapy, Zyban or pledging to thousands of newspaper readers that you’re not going to give up. But make up your mind and quit.

If you fail, try again. The stakes are too high to give up.

I know words of wisdom can seem cheap and irritating when it comes to kicking the habit. It’s the suffering that counts.

So I won’t offer any more words of wisdom as you embark on this miserable journey.

I’ll simply offer this: If you decide to face what will surely be among your more difficult days and quit right now, you’ll at least have the comfort of knowing that somewhere out there I’m suffering with you.

And as the saying goes, there’s comfort in numbers.

Or is it misery loves company?